小小纪念。。

At the mention of "Bekenu",  

I used to associate the journey with KL-Seremban,

Which is close to an hour drive...

But now that we've moved to Lambir

(a place where everybody will go wide-mouthed and say, "so far kah?")

It takes us only 20 minutes to arrive 🚗🚗

吃着吃着，他突然间问，“今天几号”，

回答他 “5号”  过后，继续吃 🐷🐷

边吃边想，11月5号，好像很熟悉的日期。。

我突然间 “哦” 了一下，

他：“哦” 什么？

我：你懂11月5号是什么日子吗？

他：不懂。。

我：😜😜

ps: 订婚不是结婚，结婚不是订婚 😂😂

High Maintenance

 

After the "Go Bald Awareness" on 11th June,

This is the second trim in 4 months 😝😝

Who says short hair requires less maintenance?

每两年的变化

本来打算等桥维修好再来拍，

但 2023 年已经进入最后三个月了，

再不拍就要等多两年了。。

不管它了，反正我主要的目的只是想记录当年的情况，

好不好，美不美，

以后回头看，每一年的照片  都有它自己的故事，

记录着我们成长的过程。。

好的经验，是因为有祂看顾，

不好的经历，也是有祂带领。。

人嘛，怎么坚强，也会有emo的一天，

Emo emo 过后，再拉自己起来 😍😍

再为明天而烦恼 😂😂

月饼甜不甜？

HAPPY MID AUTUMN FESTIVAL 💗💗

I used to LOOOVVE mooncakes,

Especially during childhood and teenage years...

But for the past few years,

I found myself readily saying "No" to a second helping...

Is it signs of aging? 😂😂

近几年会自然的拒绝第二片，

人老了，甜食必须减少。。

刚才只吃了两片都觉得甜到不行，

赶快弄一杯绿茶去掉甜腻的味道 😛😛

祝大家中秋节快乐 💗💗

Every Spine Counts

 

THOUGHTS & TAKEAWAYS FROM THIS COURSE:

1.   Would I have had the opportunity to learn about Spinal Cord Injury (SCI) and the privilege of having this extra knowledge if I was a regular human being without a disability?

2.   Would I even have cared to clothe myself with SCI knowledge if I didnt't have an SCI patient for a husband?

3.   Would I even have known how to handle/care for an SCI patient, where medical jargon like Autonomic Dysreflexia (AD), Neurogenic Bladder/Bowel was involved?

4.   Would I have had the opportunity to learn about Wound Care Management and the different methods used to treat chronic wound?

5. Most of all, would I ever even have such golden opportunities to attend courses like these?

The answer to all of the above would be: NO. I would have taken for granted that life was supposed to be good to me. I would just have been an ordinary human on earth going about my day, oblivious to the needs around me. So yes, it's a privilege to be a part of a "different" world. Because then, I can relate to different disabilities in more ways than one. 

Found myself nodding away at some of the points mentioned as I have seen the Mr. doing it. Having occasionally heard his sharing first-hand on how he went through and subsequently overcame some of the not-so-easy moments, I cannot not salute him for it. 

Coincidentally, 5th September is World SCI Day, so cheers to all the SCIs out there 🍷🍷 you've got this 💪💪

ps: why do I sound like an SCI myself? 😂😂

You're too kind with your words, Dr. 

Thanks for your support. Always an honour to be a part of you guys 💗💗

Proud of it 💗🙏

One with the Lady Boss of Rehab department 💖💖

Victory!!

At our new Centre's Soft Opening Ceremony 3 days ago, 
Jennie Fu complimented about the visible difference in both of us,

But the skeptic in me find it slightly hard to believe,

（对不起啊，我不是不相信你。。我是不相信我自己 😂😂）

So I decided to browse through my fone album for some past pictures,

Only to make some shocking discoveries 😲😍😲😍

The comparison freak in me started casually labelling them,

Only to let out my loudest "oh my gosh" at this particular picture:

Same month, same date, two years later 😍😍

我成功了！我真的成功了！

脸肿到滑滑的我，现在看回去，有点恐怖又有点恶心，

但我必须接受的事实就是，我曾经真的是肥到不像样，

那时候已经有好几个人在暗示我了，只是我不当一回事。。

直到我看到在我老公侄儿的婚礼的我，

我才真的吓到 😮😱😮😱😱

I was at my heaviest 63.3 in 2021,

But now the machine reads between 54 and 56, 

Depending on my food intake for the day...

我曾经一度完全cut掉糖水，只喝白开水 😂😂

每次叫外卖的时候，老公问我要 teh peng, teh c 吗？

甚至拿我最爱的 ShareTea 和 teh c Special 来诱惑我，

我都说不要 😝😝 （虽然真的真的很诱惑 🙈🙈）

痛苦吗？不痛苦啦，为了减肥，哈哈。。

OK la, 偶尔会 cheat 一下，

两三个星期才一杯来奖赏自己 😋😋

I'm seriously over the moon to be fluctuating between 54 and 56 now,

A drastic drop of 7 to 9kgs...

Now, shall I be greedy and go for 53? 😝😝

Still some flabby arms to work on though, ahah...

I can hear my M cheongsam calling out to me... 

你看吧！你看！🙈🙈

我叫你们看，但我自己却不敢看，也无眼看。。哈哈哈哈。。

Two Weeks Progress...

 Just for the record 👇👇😉😉

The bro said it looks like "kiwi when you leave it on the table" 😂😂🥝🥝

...and the Uncle Mogan said I look like Sinead O'connor 😝😝 OK, are you teaching me to get chess tattoo 😂😂